My offer is aimed at ALL adult people and their bodies, gender and genital configurations.

My aim is to give access to pleasure to those people who are most affected by the intersectional mechanisms of inequality in society:

• FLINTA* 
• TIN* 
• BIPoC*
• People with care responsibilities*, especially single parents
• People who become disabled by society, who identify as neurospicy or have PTSD impairments
• People who do not have a German passport or secure residence status

Most people come to me because they

• feel a sense of suffering in relation to sexuality-related issues and body parts and want to change something
• are curious to refine, expand or re-appropriate their sexuality, pleasure and somatic vocabulary

Possible topics could be 

• Reappropriation and empowerment of one's own sexuality after patriarchal experiences of violence & disconnection
• Masturbation coaching
• Re-sensitization of scarred tissue (e.g. circumcision, breast surgery or birth-related scars)
• Dealing with shameful body areas and odors, STIs or sexual preferences,
• Exercises for vaginismus or to increase pleasure
• Pleasure mapping or 'can we take a look at my genitals in the mirror together? 

You can find even more examples here.

• FLINTA* means women*, lesbian, inter, nonbinary, trans* and agender people
• BIPoC is the abbreviation of Black, Indigenous, People of Color and means in German Black, Indigenous and the term People of Color is not translated. These terms are political self-designations. This means that they emerged from a resistance and to this day stand for the struggles against the oppression of BiPoC and people who are affected by racial attributions/discrimination (source: Migrationsrat Berlin ev) 
• If you would like to know more about this or similar definitions, you can find a great online glossary in the Queer Lexicon or valuable resources on the Radical Bodywork Network site.

Care responsibility means doing care work for kids or people in need of care. It is about naming the often unpaid, invisible care work.

As a co-founder of the Queer Body Healing Space and the queer feminist theater collective Fruit of Knowledge, I believe in the power of collective transformation processes.    

Great even :)

Whether with 

• your partner(s), 
• intimate - or other reference persons 
• whether mono- or polyamorous, 
• friends with benefits, 
• newly separated 
• or newly in love, engaged, married, 
• in crisis, 
• no status or label, 
• as co-parents 
• or best friends
• whoever you are currently sharing (platonic) intimacy with or the confidence to meet each other... 

All are welcome <3

*Surcharge for each additional person: +50Euro/per person/per 60min in each category

Live session: min. 2 - max. 4 hours (video) telephone session: 1-1.5 hours

• 30 min
• free of charge
• by (video) phone
• to get to know each other and consider together whether and if so, how I can accompany you
• optionally in person for 60-75 minutes for €45-60 (so you can get a feel for my practice)
• You can use the contact form to tell me directly about your concerns and suggest an appointment.

It is important to me to make my offer accessible to those people who are oppressed by the system of inequality.

That is why there are 3 price categories according to self-assessment. In this way, those who earn more can make it possible for those who have less income (according to the principle of redistribution).

• Category I: approx. less than 900 euros net income/month
• Category II: between 900 - 2000 euros/ month
• Category III: from 2000 euros/ month

This calculator can be helpful for assessment, as various factors such as care responsibility are relevant for the calculation.

Individual session per 60 min

• I 60 €
• II 80 €
• III 100 €

Payment options

• by prepayment (IBAN or PayPal)
• cash on site
• installment payment if necessary
• Unfortunately card payment is not possible

*Surcharge for each additional person: +50 Euro/per person/per 60 min in each category

 Accompanying session per 60 min  

Package of 3

I 170 €

II 230 €

III 290 €

Package of 5

I 280 €

II 380 €

III 480 €

*Package prices are only possible with a single payment

*Surcharge for each additional person: +50Euro/per person/per 60min in each category

Even if that sounds easier than I said, but: Take a deep breath and tell yourself with compassion that chaos is the actual basic state of life anyway :)

Unfortunately, no. Sexological Bodywork is not yet recognized as a health insurance benefit. But in the event of financial bottlenecks, we will certainly find a solution (see my 3 different price categories).

Somatic: body-related and touchingSexual: sexuality-relatedLearning: to learnAccompaniment: to be seen and accompanied in a trusting setting - with everything that is there?

In order to give you a more comprehensive picture of my work and so that you can decide based on transparent information, I would like to make it clear what Sexological Bodywork is NOT:

I understand intention to be focused attention rather than a specific goal to be achieved. An intention is understood as something in process that can be changed at any time.

If, after the initial consultation, you should decide to be accompanied by me, I will send you this questionnaire.

As a member of the International Professional Association of Sexological Boyworkers, I work according to the ethical guidelines of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB)*.

The touch is one-way, practitioner toward client and never the other way around.

Despite Corona, we can meet - depending on the vaccination status, state guidelines (3G rule) and subjective feelings, either at my practice (since the ethical guidelines stipulate a strict hygiene protocol anyway) or for a distance Walk&Talk outside in one place Your choice (then of course without touch :)

I wear gloves for any geni(t)al or anal touch - it serves to protect everyone involved.

Genital diversity is awesome!

Many people associate the showing and touching of sexuality-related parts of the body with a visit to a gynecologist or urologist. With me there is no compulsion that you have to undress during the session, on the contrary!

You actively guide the touch(es).

Many people find it difficult to say specifically how they would like to be touched.

Looking at yourself in the mirror is sometimes quite difficult, emotionally as well as from what we are culturally used to, which parts of the body we look at in the mirror every day and which not... How about a safer space and one or more mirrors for it have?

After the "hands-on" body work comes the actual body work - because your body works a lot when it processes everything that has been experienced, touched and felt.

Embodied listening is listening to your own body. What does he actually need? What does he want to tell me if I feel pain, pressure, etc.?

Un-learning old patterns that we want to let go and embodying new learning experiences takes time - in fact, it takes up to 3000 repetitions until enough muscle memory has been stored for one to even speak of embodiment.

If something is on your mind, that's actually a very good sign - that something has been initiated - physically or mentally, because the emotional zipper opens - PLOPP - sometimes all by itself :)

Of course, I very much hope that there is no reason for this.