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Somatic sexual learning support



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What could such a somatic sexual_learning_accompaniment look like?


My offer is aimed at ALL bodies, genders, sexes, at individuals and their intimate or relationship people.


Here you can find possible topics that people have already contacted me with or for which I have created special offers (also for group workshops):

Good to know



For whom & why?


  • Who mainly comes to me?

    My offer is aimed at ALL adult people and their bodies, gender and genital configurations.

  • Why and with which topics?

    Most people come to me because they...

  • What does FLINTA* and BIPoC mean?
      FLINTA* means women*, lesbian, inter, nonbinary, trans* and agender peopleBIPoC is the abbreviation of Black, Indigenous, People of Color and means in German Black, Indigenous and the term People of Color is not translated. These terms are political self-designations. This means that they emerged from a resistance and to this day stand for the struggles against the oppression of BiPoC and people who are affected by racial attributions/discrimination (source: Migrationsrat Berlin ev) If you would like to know more about this or similar definitions, you can find a great online glossary in the Queer Lexicon or valuable resources on the Radical Bodywork Network site.
  • What does care responsibility mean?

    Care responsibility means doing care work for kids or people in need of care. It is about naming the often unpaid, invisible care work.

  • Can I also book group workshops?

    As a co-founder of the Queer Body Healing Space and the queer feminist theater collective Fruit of Knowledge, I believe in the power of collective transformation processes.

  • Can two or three of me come?

    Great even :)


duration & costs


  • How long takes a session?
      Live session: min. 2 - max. 4 hours (video) telephone session: 1-1.5 hours
  • Free initial consultation
      30 - 45 minutes of free (video) telephony to get to know each other and to think about whether and if so how I can accompany you
  • 3 different price categories & payment options

    It is important to me to make my offer accessible to those people who are oppressed by the system of inequality.

  • Session-Package

    Accompanying session per 60 min

  • What do I do if I can't keep the appointment or I'm late?

    Even if that sounds easier than I said, but: Take a deep breath and tell yourself with compassion that chaos is the actual basic state of life anyway :)

  • Can I bill my health insurance company for the sessions?

    Unfortunately, no. Sexological Bodywork is not yet recognized as a health insurance benefit. But in the event of financial bottlenecks, we will certainly find a solution (see my 3 different price categories).


before the session


  • What does somatic sexual learning support mean?
      Somatic: body-related and touchingSexual: sexuality-relatedLearning: to learnAccompaniment: to be seen and accompanied in a trusting setting - with everything that is there?
  • Is somatic sex learning support something like tantra?

    In order to give you a more comprehensive picture of my work and so that you can decide based on transparent information, I would like to make it clear what Sexological Bodywork is NOT:

  • What is a learning intention?

    I understand intention to be focused attention rather than a specific goal to be achieved. An intention is understood as something in process that can be changed at any time.

  • What information about my (sexual) health and biography do I have to provide?

    If, after the initial consultation, you should decide to be accompanied by me, I will send you this questionnaire.


Code of Ethics & Hygiene


  • What are the ethical guidelines?

    As a member of the International Professional Association of Sexological Boyworkers, I work according to the ethical guidelines of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB)*.

  • Can I touch Len too?

    The touch is one-way, practitioner toward client and never the other way around.

  • Can we meet despite Corona?

    Despite Corona, we can meet - depending on the vaccination status, state guidelines (3G rule) and subjective feelings, either at my practice (since the ethical guidelines stipulate a strict hygiene protocol anyway) or for a distance Walk&Talk outside in one place Your choice (then of course without touch :)

  • What if I don't like or tolerate gloves?

    I wear gloves for any geni(t)al or anal touch - it serves to protect everyone involved.


during the session


  • Geni(t)al names

    Genital diversity is awesome!

  • dealing with nudity

    Many people associate the showing and touching of sexuality-related parts of the body with a visit to a gynecologist or urologist. With me there is no compulsion that you have to undress during the session, on the contrary!

  • Active receiving & consensus

    You actively guide the touch(es).

  • What if I don't even know how I want to be touched?

    Many people find it difficult to say specifically how they would like to be touched.

  • Mirror(s) & scales

    Looking at yourself in the mirror is sometimes quite difficult, emotionally as well as from what we are culturally used to, which parts of the body we look at in the mirror every day and which not... How about a safer space and one or more mirrors for it have?


after the session


  • Integration

    After the "hands-on" body work comes the actual body work - because your body works a lot when it processes everything that has been experienced, touched and felt.

  • What is embodied listening?

    Embodied listening is listening to your own body. What does he actually need? What does he want to tell me if I feel pain, pressure, etc.?

  • Commitment to yourself

    Un-learning old patterns that we want to let go and embodying new learning experiences takes time - in fact, it takes up to 3000 repetitions until enough muscle memory has been stored for one to even speak of embodiment.

  • What if something catches up with me afterwards?

    If something is on your mind, that's actually a very good sign - that something has been initiated - physically or mentally, because the emotional zipper opens - PLOPP - sometimes all by itself :)

  • Who can I contact if I have felt uncomfortable or discriminated against?

    Of course, I very much hope that there is no reason for this.

Inspirations & Resources

It is very important to me to be transparent with the knowledge I was allowed to acquire and not to sell magic healing. Here you will find suggestions...
...for reading & thinking

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About me

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Caring & Daring Space


My practice is in Berlin - Charlottenburg. It is on the 1st floor and is therefore unfortunately not barrier-free. We're happy to find solutions together, for example I own a car and I'm happy to come to your home with my massage table in my luggage.


By Caring & Daring Space I mean a space in which we can explore together what your needs and limits are, how you can perceive them, protect them (caring) and communicate courageously or try them out (daring).


For example, what are you noticing in your body right now as you scroll through these pages?


Does that feel like a safer space for you to show yourself? Hey, and if you feel a no, that's super super valuable, because then you listen to your limits. If it's a maybe - check if the question mark is still there in a week's time...


And if you feel an enthusiastic yes or a spark of curiosity, I look forward to reading from you!

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