Welcome to
Scars & Pleasure
Somatic sexual learning support
How nice that you ended up here!!!
Trauma-informiert - Lust-aktivistisch
All Bodies, Genitals, Sexes & Gender welcome
Regenbogen-, Einhorn-, Einelter*-Familien-Konstellationen welcome!
My offer is aimed at ALL adult people and their bodies, gender and genital configurations.
Most people come to me because they...
Care responsibility means doing care work for kids or people in need of care. It is about naming the often unpaid, invisible care work.
As a co-founder of the Queer Body Healing Space and the queer feminist theater collective Fruit of Knowledge, I believe in the power of collective transformation processes.
Great even :)
It is important to me to make my offer accessible to those people who are oppressed by the system of inequality.
Accompanying session per 60 min
Even if that sounds easier than I said, but: Take a deep breath and tell yourself with compassion that chaos is the actual basic state of life anyway :)
Unfortunately, no. Sexological Bodywork is not yet recognized as a health insurance benefit. But in the event of financial bottlenecks, we will certainly find a solution (see my 3 different price categories).
In order to give you a more comprehensive picture of my work and so that you can decide based on transparent information, I would like to make it clear what Sexological Bodywork is NOT:
I understand intention to be focused attention rather than a specific goal to be achieved. An intention is understood as something in process that can be changed at any time.
If, after the initial consultation, you should decide to be accompanied by me, I will send you this questionnaire.
As a member of the International Professional Association of Sexological Boyworkers, I work according to the ethical guidelines of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB)*.
The touch is one-way, practitioner toward client and never the other way around.
Despite Corona, we can meet - depending on the vaccination status, state guidelines (3G rule) and subjective feelings, either at my practice (since the ethical guidelines stipulate a strict hygiene protocol anyway) or for a distance Walk&Talk outside in one place Your choice (then of course without touch :)
I wear gloves for any geni(t)al or anal touch - it serves to protect everyone involved.
Genital diversity is awesome!
Many people associate the showing and touching of sexuality-related parts of the body with a visit to a gynecologist or urologist. With me there is no compulsion that you have to undress during the session, on the contrary!
You actively guide the touch(es).
Many people find it difficult to say specifically how they would like to be touched.
Looking at yourself in the mirror is sometimes quite difficult, emotionally as well as from what we are culturally used to, which parts of the body we look at in the mirror every day and which not... How about a safer space and one or more mirrors for it have?
After the "hands-on" body work comes the actual body work - because your body works a lot when it processes everything that has been experienced, touched and felt.
Embodied listening is listening to your own body. What does he actually need? What does he want to tell me if I feel pain, pressure, etc.?
Un-learning old patterns that we want to let go and embodying new learning experiences takes time - in fact, it takes up to 3000 repetitions until enough muscle memory has been stored for one to even speak of embodiment.
If something is on your mind, that's actually a very good sign - that something has been initiated - physically or mentally, because the emotional zipper opens - PLOPP - sometimes all by itself :)
Of course, I very much hope that there is no reason for this.
My practice is in Berlin - Charlottenburg. It is on the 1st floor and is therefore unfortunately not barrier-free. We're happy to find solutions together, for example I own a car and I'm happy to come to your home with my massage table in my luggage.
By Caring & Daring Space I mean a space in which we can explore together what your needs and limits are, how you can perceive them, protect them (caring) and communicate courageously or try them out (daring).
For example, what are you noticing in your body right now as you scroll through these pages?
Does that feel like a safer space for you to show yourself? Hey, and if you feel a no, that's super super valuable, because then you listen to your limits. If it's a maybe - check if the question mark is still there in a week's time...
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